Connected with the sky
13th June 2019:
I think the unbelief and numbness is wearing off and yesterday for the first time, realisation hit and deep inside I knew I was happy. I had such a surreal experience when my friend and I decided to go up to the terrace and take in the view. We were not mentally prepared for the grandeur of the dark skies, with hazy clouds skimming past it like children going on their first school outing. The moon was shy, discreetly glowing behind the veil of the white cotton balls. I don’t know if it is just the height of the building, but the realm of emotions that cascaded my body is really hard to articulate.
I stood against the parapet wall staring, not vacantly but experientially, almost feeling one, taking in the winds of universal freedom. The cool wind raged against me like a cold water splash, reminding me of the opportunity the stars have granted me. Standing there playing my favourite music, drinking in the sky like a glass of deep nectar. I was completely in tune with myself. The self I had a has brought me here. The self I want to be. And most of all the self I was at that moment. And that night I slept well, like a baby wrapped in the blanket of night.
I am heading out to college in a bit and I am excited to see what the day brings me. I know there will overwhelming moments, educative moments, emotional moments, inspirational moments but if that moment forces me to evolve and become a better version of myself, then I’m all up for it.
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The morning after the rough night
14th June, 2019:
I haven’t felt this rested for a long time and I feel like a butterfly soaring in fields of green. However romanticised that sounds, it’s a feeling worth experiencing. Most nights, especially when you are awake, tossing and turning in bed feels like the unhurried crawl of a snail travelling painfully slow. And last night was a night like that. I came back home, half walking, half running in an attempt to hit the bed, before my migraine bursts into flame.
It started with a bout of yawning in class, coupled with dehydration and I remember falling asleep for 15 minutes in class. I woke up with feeble pounding like a weak pulse that made sure its presence was not just known but felt. Eventually, after I kept ignoring it, it decided to test me further. The best way I can explain how a migraine feels for me personally is by a small analogy. Imagine that your standing in a white spacious room, this is your brain at normalcy.
Then imagine that the room being fitted with high-quality speakers with intense bass from head to toe. Sounds pretty fun at this point? Then imagine the walls being compressed to such an extent your arms start hurting from the pressure. Imagine there is no space to even turn your head and you have to try extra hard to breathe. Then imagine the speakers all around you, being cranked up even louder till you want to scream and yell. That’s how the pounding feels like.
It doesn’t stop there. Imagine having your eyes forced open and colourful flashy strobe lights are being flashed all over your face. That’s how light perception feels. And that’s why the darkness is your best friend. Coupled with that, imagine that your cramped little room with pulsating music and intense light is suddenly being towed away. The road is rocky and as you’re being tossed to and fro, hitting your head against the metal. That’s nausea for you. Then imagine people, even loved ones trying to engage in conversation with you and it sounds like swarms of grating echoes. That my friend is what it feels like when a migraine knocks on your front door.
Talking about the above is not an attempt to extract pity, maybe empathy. But only when you have nights like this will you be able to appreciate the pleasant airy morning that soon follows. I now appreciate the little things in life. Like the window right in front of my desk that opens out to a bustling street. I appreciate the full-length mirror outside my room and helps me love myself. I appreciate the morning calm and yes, even the morning chatter. And most of all I appreciate my loved ones, who haven’t given up on me, even if it seemed like I had given up on them through the rough night. People, I appreciate you and that goes on to you as well, my readers. Never give up on people, cause people are the conduits of love and refreshing.
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I have started this series as an attempt to catalogue my raw emotions whether it is in the colour of liquid morning sunrise or pale translucent moonlight. This diary style approach is an attempt to motivate myself while being true to my real emotions. I have moved out of home for the first time to pursue my education with renewed fervour, and every step is an attempt at adulting. I hope that my readers will be with me every step of the way and I know that I have to grow some horns and be ready for battle. And if this journaling helps someone along the way, I would have done what I sought out to. Change is no respecter of persons, so let’s evolve together.
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