The search for the paramount
I haven’t blogged for a day and that is primarily because of two reasons. Firstly, the weekends mean that I get to travel back home and cuddle in my warm bed. Secondly, I didn’t get to cuddle in bed because of an assignment I had to complete before the 12 am deadline. I always ask myself, “Why do people procrastinate until the very end?”. The actual question is why do I find this need to postpone everything to the last minute. The corporal we is an attempt to make me feel like procrastination is a system rather than a personal choice. Reflectively, the truth is that I have always been a last-minute person, who assures herself that she produces good work only at the fag end. To be even more truthful, I only seem to produce any work at the eleventh hour.
Today seems like a good day to examine the thought process that makes me wait until the last minute. I almost feel like a suicide bomber who pushes the detonate button and escapes by the skin of his teeth. Two weeks before the deadline, all I have is a remote idea of the assignments piled in my student login page. One week before the deadline, I go through the topic and read through the rubrics. Five days before the deadline, I open a google document and type the heading of the paper and head back to sleep. Four days before the assignment, I lazily scroll through various journals to identify papers that could possibly be useful. I realise there is nothing relevant and jump into bed. Three days left, and the guilt prods my shoulder like a dark shadow and I am suddenly able to find articles that can be used. Two days left, I open a running page with possible sources and relevant citations. One day left and I am the most productive. I have devised a strategy to just start getting words on the document, no matter what. . 2 minutes before the deadline, I have submitted it. 87% proud of myself.
The fallacy of work-life balance
And this is just my first assignment, I have at least 10 down the corner. The concept of work-life balance immediately tries to wave a red flag in my face. There was this TED x talk that I recently watched where Micheal Walters spoke about the fallacy of work-life balance. He pointed out how ultimately work and life cannot be separated and both the spheres are interdependent on each other. This makes sense. For example, if you lose your job, does it affect your life? You have to cut costs, change social circles and explore new options. In the same vein, if you have a kid, does it affect your work in any way? Therefore Walters warned against viewing work as a separate daunting entity, sucking our life away. Rather viewing work as this small inseparable part inside a larger construct called life definitely gives us a more positive perspective. Therefore we approach every work or life-related decision responsibly as a possible step to towards progress rather than as a problem.
This is something I seek to apply in my life. The edges between work and life are blurring in my mind and I just want to keep the ball rolling towards greater things. Life encompasses many good things such as people, music, memories and even if work seems challenging, in retrospect it can be good if consistently slain. I just have 2 years to work hard and I am going to throw myself in work so that life will thank me later. Today is my first choir performance in college and the goosebumps prove that this is something special. Almost 150 voices blending in differentiated unison, soaring, falling, gliding in harmonious tones, makes me feel that the time commitment is almost worth it.
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I have started this series as an attempt to catalogue my raw emotions whether it is in the colour of liquid morning sunrise or pale translucent moonlight. This diary-style approach is an attempt to motivate myself while being true to my real emotions. I have moved out of home for the first time to pursue my education with renewed fervour, and every step is an attempt at adulting. I hope that my readers will be with me every step of the way and I know that I have to grow some horns and be ready for battle. And if this journaling helps someone along the way, I would have done what I sought out to. Change is no respecter of persons, so let’s evolve together.
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